Question: Our teenage daughter (15) has had a hard couple of years and suffers from anxiety. However, she often lashes out at us with bad language, shouting and even sometimes breaking things in the house. We think it’s because she is anxious.
This can feel very hurtful and distressing. We try to talk to her about it and explain that it hurts our feelings, but she dismisses that and says all her friends do it, that it’s normal and we are just old and weird. She can get anxious about lots of things like being seen getting out of the car, if we are walking too far away from her in a shop or going in to school. We were recently called in to see the principal who said she can be aggressive with teachers.